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I don’t understand why people even want a divorce? Don’t we need someone to share our journey with? So what if our life partner is not what we expect to be, he/she has been your life partner for many times and acknowledge that time and appreciate it.

Anyway, I have come up with 7 reason from different perspective on why you should not get a divorce

Reason number 1 – from the religious point of view

If you are a catholic like I do then you would know that divorce is not allowed in the catholic church. It is wrong to separate something that has been united under God.

When you are treated unwell, cheated, abuse, and other stuff that makes you want to divorce. Remember that love is about giving, make your couple understand that you love him/her without expecting anything in return.

Reason number 2 – from the business point of view

Marriage is like investment, in fact it is a million dollar investment. You give all your money, heart, and time to dedicate yourself to make your marriage work.  If you own a million dollar investment are you seriously want to walk away from it?

Not to mention that the cost for a divorce lawyer is ridiculously high, the average cost is about $5000.

Reason number 3 – from health perspective

Research has shown that people that is going through a divorce process has higher chance to get a chronic disease such as cancer. This is because people that is stressed up and also unhappy is more likely to get disease like that than those who never had any stress process like divorce.

Reason number 4 – from psychological perspective

You would have low self esteem, research show that people that has been divorced doesn’t have high self esteem as they used to be. Afraid of getting new connection and dating new people.

Reason number 5 – Family intergrity

If you have a small child in a broken family then the chance that the child would have impaired behavior is high. The trauma for the child from divorced parents last for lifetime.

Reason number 6 – Fixing relationship vs Aftermath

Research also has shown that people who want to fix their relationship is much more easier and much more better than those who try to make thing better after they are divorced.

Reason number 7 – Human are social creature

People need someone that they could trust to, someone that they can talk to, someone that they can share the journey.

Are you seriously want to grow old alone? Think again…

posted: 09 October 5
under: Healthy life